Sunday, May 22, 2011

Relay For Life

Seeing that my last post was for Mother's Day, this seems like a perfect follow-up post.

Yesterday I was part of a great event that was held at our elementary school. It was the Relay For Life, 24 hour cancer walk. This is the second year that it was held at our school, but I unfortunately didn't participate last year. I made sure I was on the team this year though! This event raises money to help cancer patients. It honors survivors with their own lap during opening ceremony, and has a luminary ceremony at night to honor those survivors as well as the loved ones lost. 

This event is very close to my heart as I lost my Mom to cancer at the age of 54. She had breast cancer twice and survived, then came down with brain cancer, which ultimately took her life. I was walking in her honor!

The Relay started at 9am on Saturday and my good friend Kimberly, who along with her husband, are cancer survivors, took on the first laps. The rest of our team, Moulton Hawks, showed up at different times throughout the day. My youngest son and I arrived at 2:30pm and stayed until closing ceremonies at 9am Sunday. My husband and oldest son arrived in the early evening and stayed until after the luminary ceremony. It felt really good to have my family there to support me. I also loved being surrounded by my wonderful friends! 

The most touching thing to me was the luminary ceremony. People decorated bags to celebrate survivors or to honor loved ones lost. Those bags were then placed all around the field and lit with a flame-less candle. Once the sun went down, the field had a beautiful glow framing it. At 9pm, a speech was given, then all in attendance were given a candle. We all walked the field, in silence, reading the bags. It was very emotional. 

Many teams came and went throughout the day/night, but there were a few that decided to camp out overnight. We were one of them. We had our little campsite set up and it was a neat experience "sleeping" at the school. I say "sleeping" because unless you were a child, we didn't get much sleep. My two friends walked all night, with the exception of about 2hrs. I stayed up until just before 2am and then tried to sleep. I don't know about most people, but I LOVE my bed! I climb into it every night and within 10 minutes or so, it has me visiting la-la land. Sleeping on an air mattress, in a sleeping bag, in a tent, isn't my ideal thing. I tossed and turned, while next to me, my son was snoring! Oh, to be a kid! I eventually dosed off because next thing I know, it's light outside. It was 5:30a.m. and I figured I would get up and do more laps. 

At the end of the Relay, my two friends and I, who had camped out overnight, had walked over 125,000 steps, which is over 50 miles. Kim and Stacey did the majority of that walking, but the 11.5 miles that I logged has me feeling it today. That is o.k. though, because it was all for a good cause!

My little trooper and I





  Cheryl Burke Dance Academy came down and gave free dance lessons




Kim and her husband Jason


My husband and son doing their laps


The luminary bag I made for my Mom


My guys having fun on their lap


A video I made of the luminary ceremony


Saturday, May 7, 2011

Mother's Day

In my life puzzle, I have a giant piece missing. It is one of those important pieces that once you lose it, it cannot be replaced. You will pick up new pieces that will fit into your puzzle, but not in this one spot. This special spot can only be filled by your Mom.

It has been 14 years since I lost my Mom and yes, as time goes by, it does get a little easier. There are times though, that I really wish she was here, because I NEED her!

My Mom was more than just a mom to me. She was my best friend! She was my go-to person whenever I needed something, or had a question, or just wanted a shoulder to cry on. We had a very special relationship and I shared everything with her. I remember back to all the times we would hang out together. We loved to go shopping and grab a bite to eat, just the two of us. It was our special "girl-time" that I cherish so much!

My Mom was a true fighter! On the outside, she may not look like one, but on the inside, she was the strongest person I know. Even when her life was breaking down, she still worried about her family. She wanted to make sure we were all right.

So as Mother's Day gets closer, I am really missing her. My heart is breaking and I feel so alone. I know I'm not though, as I am surrounded by a wonderful family and great friends. It just all goes back to my puzzle. Looking down and seeing that missing piece really saddens me. I may be a grown woman, but deep down inside I am just a young girl who needs her Mom!




I miss you so much Mom! You are forever in my heart and I LOVE YOU!

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Lots of Beach Time

Today was in the 90s and beautiful! We here in CA could not have asked for a more perfect day!

I started off my day with a 17.5 mile, round trip bike ride with a friend of mine. We enjoyed a nice ride down along the coast, taking in the sights and sun. It was a lot of fun and we had a great time chatting along the ride.

Then, after picking up both boys from school, we met up with a group of friends down at the beach. The weather at 4:00pm was still perfect! I love where I live!

So here are some pictures from our beach time:










Sunday, May 1, 2011

Stallion Springs

The weekend started in April and is now coming to an end in May. Wow, time is flying by so fast!

We just spent our weekend up at Daniel's parents house. My Mother-in-law just celebrated her birthday, so we all drove up to visit and celebrate it with her. A nice surprise what that Daniel's brother Jeff, and his family, made the drive as well. It was a very nice, and relaxing weekend. All the kids had a blast! I especially love when the cousins get together because they all get along so well. The visit was short, but sweet, and everyone had a great time!

So here are some pictures that I took while up there:

My nephew and niece:
Isn't my niece a cutie?!
 Giving sweet kisses to his cousin:
Queen Bailey:
 King Chuck:
 Cousins:
The cousins again:
 My cute little guy!
 My niece:

 Finally, a shot of my handsome, big guy!
Here are some wild flowers that I found:



 It was very chilly there in the morning, and I found this Poppy with what looks like its arms wrapped around it to keep it warm.